🦄 Startups & VC 6d ago · Justin Brown

Loneliness doesn’t always look like an empty room. Sometimes it looks like a person who laughs at every joke, remembers every birthday, shows up at every event, and drives home afterward in total silence wondering why none of it ever reaches the part of them that’s still starving.

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Loneliness doesn’t always look like an empty room. Sometimes it looks like a person who laughs at every joke, remembers every birthday, shows up at every event, and drives home afterward in total silence wondering why none of it ever reaches the part of them that’s still starving.
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Social starvation and social performance can coexist in the same body, at the same dinner party, on the same Tuesday night when you drove forty minutes to bring a bottle of wine you couldn’t afford to a gathering you didn’t want to attend. The loneliness that most people recognize — the empty apartment, the phone that never rings, the holidays spent alone — accounts for only a fraction of the isolation that’s actually circulating through modern life. The version that does the m

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